Wednesday, February 27, 2008 12:15 PM
by 作者
paulchan
女名星老公偷吃 不知道的可能更幸福 To Know Or Not to Know
There’s a rumor circulating about a popular actress’s hubby who is keeping a woman outside… I think this actress is still pregnant now (or already given birth maybe). Everyone in his company knew about it except the wife. Not knowing it or finding out about it may be a good thing…
I remember when I was working in an international advertising agency, my Account Director who was married and his wife just given birth was actually seeing someone – a man! It was no secret to us all in the agency that the Account Director was gay and he married someone of equivalent high social status due to family and society’s pressure.
Very often, when he went abroad for meetings, he would return earlier than the actual dates (the dates he told his wife he would be back) in order to spend a day or two with his boyfriend or boyfriends.
Some female friends of the wife already told her on many occasions (even before they got married) that her husband was gay. Every time, the wife would dismiss it as just another rumor and her girlfriends were simply jealous and trying to break up her 'perfect' relationship or marriage.
The couple is still together today and he may still be keeping the lover/s. If the wife had chosen to believe and actually finding out about the truth, she might be devastated and her whole family, children and life would be in turmoil.
By ignoring such rumors, she is still ‘living happily ever after’…
Personally, I would rather find out about the truth than live in a ‘fairy-tale marriage’. Call me traditional but I believe in love for that one important person in a marriage. I can’t live or sleep with a lie…no, I can’t.